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Do you ever feel left out? Here’s how to know if you’re being replaced.

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There are times when you just don’t feel welcome anymore. Your own friends don’t want to include you anymore. The feeling at that time really hurts. Like I always say look for signs. People don’t make impulsive decisions when it comes to this. It takes time and happens gradually. You cannot force someone to like you, so what should you do? Step back. You need to move away from them before it’s too late. So I’m going to tell you how do you know when you are being replaced.

• You’re out of the loop

Your squad doesn’t want you to be around them anymore. They don’t include you in the plans they make. They find excuses for not hanging out with you. They go out without you pretty often. They don’t even text on the group chat anymore. They don’t check up on you at all. You’re not a part of a big surprise plan for someone from the group.

• You start to feel invisible

They don’t pay attention to what you’re saying. They keep having wholesome conversations among each other in front of you. But the minute you say something, everyone goes silent. They pretend to like you’re not even there.

• No communication

They cut off all communication with you. When you feel there’s something wrong and you text them about it, they just say ‘oh, it’s nothing’. They just ignore you and leave your text messages on seen.

• You can just feel it in your gut

Always trust your gut feeling. When you feel lonely and unwanted, trust the feeling. Know that they don’t want you anymore, they don’t want to hang out with you.

• The replacement

The person hanging out most when them is the one replacing you. That person doesn’t like you at all and you don’t like them either. They make sure all the plans are made without including you.

These are a bunch of obvious signs that you have to find new friends who treat you well and make you feel mattered. I’ve been brutally honest because I know this is difficult but you have to take a stand for yourself. Trust your gut and be around people who make you feel important and valued.